Bounce Baby Bounce!

Not so into grabbing a book? There are other ways to engage your child, specifically through song and rhymes. Your baby loves your voice, so no need to feel like your tone-deafness will be a problem! The best part about this is that there is no wrong way to do this, and it can be done any time any where.

Singing: Songs teach so many language skills: vocabulary, syllables, rhythm and rhyme.

You can sing ANYTHING - whatever you love from the radio, songs that were sung to you when you were little, your schedule of the day (I am very guilty of singing songs to my kids about getting dressed, feeding time, bed time etc.). The next time you are in the car, sing along to whatever you are listening to. When you are out on a walk, sing about the trees and cars you are passing by (or you can just point them out and make conversation with your little one). My favorite songs to my first child were the ones from his toys that played music. They were so catchy and they were Fisher-Price's versions of songs about the colors, the parts of the body and some bizarre "I Love You" song that has become a staple in my household.

Rhyme Time:

Nursery Rhymes, "Action" rhymes and Bouncing rhymes are different ways of engaging your child when they are just on your lap hanging out. Rhymes like "Pat-A-Cake" or "Hickory-Dickory-Dock" are great because your baby will follow your hand motions and eventually will do it himself. It's very exciting when that happens!!

As a baby gift someone bought me an "Old MacDonald Had A Farm" hand puppet that had five different farm animals on each finger. I would use it every time I sang that song to my babies and they became my child's "friends". Puppets are a great tool to singing rhymes, and you can make them yourself pretty easily. "Action Rhymes" include the songs you use your hands for, Itsy Bitsy Spider, Open, Shut Them, Mr. Sun etc. Babies love to be tickled and this is a great way to bring on the giggles!

My personal favorites are action rhymes with a bounce - I find they excite babies most of all. Some of my go-to's are 1,2,3 OOPS! (bounce your baby 3 times and then open your legs so they "fall") it is a guaranteed pleaser, The Grand Old Duke Of York and Father and Mother and Uncle John. You can always Google songs and rhymes for ideas if you get stuck, or just turn on any music device and dance baby dance! These are actually great because they teach your children literacy skills while also moving around - win win all around!

"Hey Mommy, Pick A Book!"

This is the phrase I look forward to hearing everyday around 2 pm. That is the time I shut off all the technology devices (TV, IPad and my cell phone) and we have reading/play with your toys time. This lasts until 3:30 when Little Einsteins starts on the Disney channel. I know I haven't posted in a while, but I had a second child in June, and then I became a stay at home mom. The world forgot to tell me that everything I do for myself (including blogging), would have to take a back seat for a while and that's okay.

Being home with my 6 month old and my 28 month old has been quite a challenge for me. As one who loves to be in fancy clothes and high heels all day, that has all been traded in for comfy shirts and skirts due to so much time spent at the playground or at home (especially now with the cold weather upon us)! So followers, it's not that I haven't been reading, I just haven't been telling you about it lately.

I believe the time has come to remix this blog. Reviews are great, but as a children's librarian and as a mother the time has come for me to share with you the importance of Early Literacy. Not just because I took a continuing education class on it last month and not because I need to increase my numbers at "baby storytime", but because school is getting harder for our children, and we need to take back their childhood while preparing them for the real world. I am ready to help each and every one of you have your child knowing the ABCs and their Numbers by 2. (Sorry, my book is not yet published). The best part? You don't have to do much - except spend some time with your baby/toddler! You already do that? AWESOME! You are a hard working full time Mama? Excellent - here are some tips for your caregiver. Your caregiver doesn't speak English? Jackpot! She can sing and dance in whatever language she knows best - your baby will LOVE it!!!

I will try to post these helpful tips as often as possible, but I cannot promise daily due to my crazy work schedule. In any case here is an overview of how to get started:

We are parents in 2013. Our children need to be all kinds of literate. They need to know about reading in addition to technology and the world around them - trees, dirt, snow, food, clothing etc. I know there are many studies out there that say "no screens for anyone under 2 years old". I don't think anyone who wrote that had an 18 month old at home who also needed to cook dinner and get the laundry out of the washing machine and into the dryer. Spoiler alert: My 18 month watched television. However, I was the one in charge of the remote, which is why he spent a lot of nights watching "Wheel Of Fortune" which led to his knowledge of the letters in the alphabet. My advice (and I will definitely discuss this at length in another post) is to allow your child screen time if you need to, both a television and an IPad, within moderation, and make it a bonding time for you and your child. That way, there is still family time and the child learns these items are part of the world, not rewards.

As for those under two years of age, welcome to the world of giggles and bouncing and preparing your child for everything there is that needs to be learned! All babies need to be read and sung to, in any language. Board books are great (I will post my top picks for books at every age and stage). A lot of my personal favorites can be found at www.downtownbookworks.com, and singing to your baby is an absolute must, even if it is just your schedule of the day. Babies love rhyme time, so get that baby on your lap and sing "Open Shut Them". I promise you that if you sing that every day for a week, by day 8 your child will anticipate when to open up their little mouths (and that's a really big deal in the literacy world!)

The time has come to prepare our youngest children to live in a world that is filled with a lot of things that did not exist when we were young. We have to make sure they use their imaginations when they build with their blocks, and still want to dress up in tiaras and cowboy hats. But, there is no harm in having your two year old be able to recognize the letters in his name!